It isn’t as easy as it should be.  I like to think I know how to talk “nasty” in the bedroom and I try to translate that in to the story.  Recently i’ve been reading and writing erotica with my girlfriend.  This has made it quite a bit easier, and quite a bit HARDER!  I have to admit we took two “breaks” while working on my recent project.  That’s OK though, it gave me more food for thought.